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When Alex decided to volunteer with Big Brothers Big Sisters, his primary motivation was the desire to mentor a young boy. He saw being a Big Brother as an excellent opportunity to guide and support a child through his formative years. Alex believed that the key qualities of a mentor include being a positive influence and an older friend who can share life experiences and perspectives, laying the foundation for a meaningful and impactful relationship.
The most rewarding part of Alex’s mentoring journey has been witnessing the growth and maturation of his Little Brother, Mac. Meeting Mac at the tender age of 9 and watching him evolve into a 14-year-old has been a profound experience for Alex. It’s the subtle, everyday changes and the significant milestones that have marked this journey, illustrating the positive impact a mentor can have on a young person’s life.
Reflecting on his time as a mentor, Alex acknowledges that the experience has fostered his own personal growth and change. The role of a mentor has pushed him to be more patient, understanding, and empathetic, qualities that have enhanced his personal and professional relationships. The match has also been full of surprises, challenging Alex’s assumptions and teaching him that the learning process is mutual; mentors and mentees learn from each other in equal measure.
For Alex, the surprises have come in various forms—from discovering shared interests with Mac that he wouldn’t have explored otherwise, to witnessing Mac’s unexpected insights into life’s challenges. These moments have enriched their relationship, adding depth and breadth to their interactions.
To those considering becoming a Big Brother or Sister, Alex offers straightforward yet powerful advice: Be prepared to provide a positive and healthy experience for your Little. He stresses the importance of engaging in activities that are mutually interesting, as shared passions can strengthen the bond between Bigs and Littles. It’s about creating a safe space where the Little can grow, learn, and thrive, supported by the mentor’s guidance and friendship.
Alex’s journey with Mac highlights the essence of mentorship within Big Brothers Big Sisters. It’s a partnership that nurtures growth, embraces change, and celebrates the milestones along the way. For anyone looking to make a difference in the life of a young person, Alex’s experience stands as a testament to the rewards of being a Big, underscored by the joy of shared discovery and the lasting impact of positive influence.