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Motivated by her own upbringing surrounded by a strong support network, Amanda embarked on her journey with Big Brothers Big Sisters with the goal of being a reliable presence for someone in need. Understanding the struggles of growing up without a comprehensive support system, she was driven by the desire to offer the kind of friendship and guidance she was fortunate to have.
In her role as a mentor, she emphasizes the importance of being kind, patient, and genuinely enjoying the time spent with her Little. Rather than adhering strictly to the traditional notions of mentorship, their interactions are centered around fun and shared interests, creating a space where serious conversations happen naturally and at the Little’s own pace.
The match has proven to be a delightful surprise, highlighting BBBS’s thoughtful pairing process that matched her with a Little who shares her hobbies and possesses a maturity beyond her years. This compatibility has transformed their time together into an enjoyable and fulfilling experience for both.
For those considering becoming mentors, her advice is simple yet profound: stay true to yourself and foster the same authenticity in your Little. Building a strong rapport with the child’s parents is also crucial, as it not only ensures everyone’s comfort but also provides a wealth of ideas for activities, making each week’s plan a collaborative effort.
Amanda’s story illustrates that mentorship is not just about providing guidance but also about nurturing a genuine connection through shared experiences and open communication. Her approach demonstrates how mentors can make a significant impact in their Littles’ lives by simply being there, ready to share in the joy of discovery and the warmth of friendship.