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In 2015, George began what would become a life-changing journey with his Little Brother, Gab. Now in their ninth year as a Big Brother match, their bond has endured through many changes in both of their lives. This lasting relationship is a testament to their mutual commitment and care for one another, supported by Gab’s mother, who has been a steadfast advocate for their match over the years.
For George, the key qualities of a good mentor are reliability and being non-judgmental. These attributes have been central to the relationship he’s built with Gab, creating a foundation of trust and understanding that has allowed Gab to grow with confidence.
One of the most rewarding moments of George’s mentoring journey was helping Gab navigate the challenges of finding his first part-time job. Unsure where to start, Gab turned to George for guidance. Together, they worked on Gab’s resume, practiced how to approach potential employers, and visited numerous businesses. George provided coaching and encouragement every step of the way, building Gab’s confidence and skills. Their efforts paid off when Gab received two job offers—a proud moment for both of them. Gab is now happily employed, a milestone that underscores the impact of their enduring partnership.
The experience of mentoring has also been transformative for George, fostering greater empathy and a deeper understanding of the challenges young people face. His relationship with Gab has helped him grow as a person, making the journey as rewarding for George as it has been for Gab.
George’s advice to anyone considering becoming a Big Brother or Sister is simple: make a long-term commitment. The consistency and dedication required to sustain a mentorship are vital to creating a meaningful and lasting bond, providing the stability that young people like Gab need to thrive.
The story of George and Gab is a powerful example of the difference a dedicated mentor can make. Over nearly a decade, their relationship has been defined by shared experiences, milestones, and growth, illustrating the profound and lasting impact of mentorship on both the mentor and the mentee.